Well we say dated but it’s really just a fling as it was doomed from the beginning. Or can you change a player, stop him from chasing after the next woman and settle with you?
Let’s find out: Main Entry: player Function: noun Etymology: possibly derived from the phrases “play him for a fool”, or “play him like a violin”.
Men don’t tend to be as intuitive as women so they can’t even see the pimp hand coming before it’s too late.
So here are some signs to consider when trying to avoid falling victim to a female player: Plenty of women have a lot of male friends simply because they feel men are easier to deal with. The problem is when you notice these various “friends” always doing things for this woman.
Is he always taking calls in another room when you’re there? Men that consistently hang around with men that are open about their negative relationship behaviour do so because they can elevate their status and think that they are better with women than they are. When it’s occasional you can let it go, but when it happens consistently, I would question what is preoccupying his time. He lavishes you with gifts to make up for the things that he has done wrong.
If your man is just anal retentive, skip over this one, but in general when guys are inflexible about their time and seem to slot you into the gaps, it’s a clear indicator of the possible existence of another woman in his life. A man that consistently turns up to your place late at night does not mean you any good.
A woman over 50 has illusions of finding a wonderful man with whom to share dinner, theatre and dancing.
A man over 50 has illusions of finding a woman to have sex with.
They use real life examples to illustrate the harm you could come to if you were with some of the other guys they know so that they can distract you from what they are doing. When his phone rings or beeps with a text message, he races for it. Obviously if you’re a woman that gets jealous when he so much as looks in the direction of the female species, I would skip over this point… I always hear alarm bells when I get approached by a guy and he manages to slip in something sexual, something far too over familiar very early into the conversation. When you talk to him in a public place, are his eyes wandering to other women as they walk by? Beware of men that don’t have even one friend amongst their crew that they can ‘look up to’.
If he is shady about taking or receiving calls, I would ask yourself what he is trying to hide. Men that are focused on getting a peek at your vagina rather than getting to know you, are Player Playa’s. This is a clear sign of disrespect but if it’s a consistent habit, it’s a sign of a guy that’s not interested in playing one on one. If your man has lots of friends that are shaggers, babyfathers with babymama drama, men that abuse, trust me when I say that he’s not learning very much that will do you any good. This shows a blatant disrespect for you and your time.
If they hung around with guys with good relationship habits, they would see things that they would have to face up to. He has several children by several different women. If he can’t even behave around your nearest and dearest, he has serious player issues. He hasn’t introduced you to his friends and family. I’m not averse to women receiving gifts from men but be careful when he thinks that he can always buy his way out of his wrong doings. Baggage Reclaim is a guide to learning to live and love with self-esteem by breaking the patterns that stand in your way.