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Somehow, you can’t help but feel a little left out. Growing up, you always took for granted you’d be married by now. Some of your less-coordinated friends have managed to do it. So you got a house, a car, a degree, a job, did some traveling, and built yourself into somebody rather enviable. Today, singles all over the world are kissing fate goodbye and looking for love digitally. Online dating has been around as long as the web made it possible for two people to communicate.
But one thing today’s singles are finding out is that there is one thing in life you can’t work for, be good enough for, or accomplish through any persistence of your own. Now, millions log on to sites and apps everyday to search through profiles and photos of total strangers, hoping to find that special someone.
Others just want out, so they’re willing to settle for someone who seems good enough at that moment in time.
But this phenomenon is only applicable for those people who aren’t really looking for long-term love.
I took a random, informal survey of several graduate school students, encouraging them to share their thoughts on dating online.
First came the cynics: “Personally, I would not use it.That emotion wells up from inside YOU, when you think you have found someone who models the couples interactions/imagery/feelings you absorbed from around you in your childhood years..Some people play on your emotions to get what they want and leave.. IF you wish to be less hurt next time, upgrade your picker and wait for that "nice guy" who truly does cherish you, but may seem a bit boring compared to the smooth talking bad boy..Alice, a marketing executive in her 40s, has been a member on and off of the Jewish dating site for years; at her count, she’s been on more than 100 dates with men from the greater Dallas region.But the more she lingers on the site, she says, the harder it is to settle on any one suitor.The pickings are slim that's true , I really dont think online dating is for everyone. You've got to learn to say no to the bad ones, and sooner rather than later to make yourself available for a good one, though. With time, experience, and education, some "love" may happen..