Unfortunately (or fortunately…depending on how you look at it), there is no simple mathematical equation, or test, or quiz that can predict whether or not your relationship will be a lasting success.
Our life is an —not a foregone conclusion (and that’s a good thing! But the more aware you are of what, potentially, you’re getting into when you enter a relationship, the better you can mitigate your chances of heartbreak and relationship disaster.
I most often run into people dating while separated when they're separated themselves and involved with someone else who's separated too.
It’s what feels right for me and I feel ready for it.
I wouldn’t fear being exclusive with the right person.
Currently, I am using online dating to meet new prospects, though I choose not to date anyone who is going through divorce.
I am divorced and have been for two years and am of the opinion that there is too much other stuff going on in one’s life during a divorce to date, as well.
The questions that follow each section are questions to consider when you’re thinking about whether to continuing seeing him—especially if you have the intention of dating with the purpose of finding a life-partner.
These questions might not be as important to you if you’re just dating recreationally and short term.
Read this email I received from a reader who is having problems in online dating because he is separated–not officially divorced.
My divorce is amicable and I maintain a good relationship with my ex.
Decide wisely because a lot of heartache is at stake.